The Unspoken Rizz vs Sexual Harassment meme template contrasts the concept of 'unspoken rizz'—the ability to attract someone effortlessly—with sexual harassment, illustrating the fine line between charisma and inappropriate behavior.
This meme variant updates the traditional Flirting vs. Harassment template by replacing 'flirting' with 'Unspoken Rizz,' which refers to an alpha male's innate ability to attract women without overt effort. Typically, it features two image macros or characters that are compared based on their charm and allure. A similar template, Hello, Human Resources?!, also gained traction in mid-2022.
The meme originated on May 14, 2022, when Twitter user therealt3mi tweeted, 'tf is a unspoken rizz,' which garnered approximately 3,900 likes within six months. The following day, Twitter user isuspec responded with an image contrasting a muscular Black man—labeled 'Unspoken Rizz'—against a nerdy Black man named Finn Gardiner, labeled 'Sexual Harassment.' This initial meme received over 820 likes in the subsequent six months.
On May 24, 2022, TikToker Brick Nermon (@bricknermonstreamclips) shared the meme in a slideshow format, amassing around 211,900 plays and 37,100 likes in six months. That same day, the Instagram account guacamole_mp4 reposted the meme, earning approximately 1,800 likes. On June 7, 2022, another Instagram user, halabi2trappy, created a version featuring Syrian singer Omar Souleyman as 'unspoken rizz' and Drake as 'sexual harassment,' which received a notable, albeit unquantified, number of likes. The meme continued to evolve, with various iterations appearing on platforms like Reddit and TikTok, including a duet by richardnuts69 on October 4, 2022, which highlighted the meme's versatility and reach.